"The One" - How to Know

October 12, 2019

Soulmate: a person ideally suited to another as a close friend or romantic partner.


You have met your person, your lobster, your twin flame. There are a so many terms you can choose to describe this ONE person who has impacted your life like nobody else. But how do you know if this is truly your partner to share in every day while you live? Here are a few questions to ask yourself:



  1. Do You talk about your future? I don't mean plans for the weekend. You share your long-term goals and bucket list items or even just the next major holiday plans.

  2. Are you completely at home with them? You let her see your dirty laundry pile. She lets you see her without makeup. You are able to be open and let them see your struggles along with the triumphs.

  3. Do you want to share your day with them? When you get that promotion, or a new opportunity or even just see something they would find funny do you share it? If you go out of your way to make sure they are a part of you when you're separated, that's a big clue.

  4. Are you in sync? You're on a similar page in life. Not only that, but your goals and values are aligned. This doesn't mean you have all the same interests; instead it means you support their interests and they respect yours.

When you feel like you have ongoing deja vu, it's a sign you are on the right path. Embrace it! You know you are in it for a long-term commitment when all of the above are true. Are you ready for the next step? If you've read this, chances are you are ready for a proposal soon. We can help. Also, congratulations that you found the one your soul loves. It's a big deal!




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